Baby Steps Count

Don’t want to wait for happiness anymore, baby steps count

Most of us have a picture perfect life we envision in our minds of true happiness- perhaps, when we get that dream job, that perfect mate, or that lavish house. We end up stuck in that anticipatory nick of time between where we are, and where we want to go. While there’s nothing wrong with being full of ambition, it’s utterly depriving to be in the present, yet lost in the future.

It doesn’t have to be like that though. You can learn how to truly enjoy what you have and where you are in life, as you stride towards your aspirations.

Happiness is a choice- a decision to want, love, and cherish who, and what you have in your life every single day. A few baby steps can revitalize and remodel you feel and outlook on life.

Steps to authentic happiness

  1. Do more activities that truly engage and inspire you.

At home and at work, seek out for experiences that give you pleasure, a sense of purpose and well-being. Whether it’s writing, drawing or meditating-whatever makes you feel inspirited and in tune with your inner self.

  1. Savor little life’s joys.

Cherish and appreciate those little things and moments in life that warm up your heart.

  1. Learn to forgive.

Let go of anger and resentment toward the people who have hurt or wronged you. It’s extremely liberating.

  1. Practice acts of kindness.

Do good things for others—friends or strangers. Kind people are always happy individuals.

  1. Nurture relationships.

Invest time and energy in healing and strengthening the relationships in your life. Sometimes a little effort goes a long way with people.

  1. Cultivate optimism.

Choose and practice looking at the bright side of every situation.

  1. Develop coping strategies,

Find healthy ways to deal with stress, hardship, or trauma.

  1. Count your blessings.

Express gratitude on every fortunate instance you have. A gratitude journal can a useful reminder.

  1. Strengthen your spiritual connections.

Religious and spiritual people are happier. They are more mindful and easily connect their higher selves.

10. Pursue your goals.

Achieving goals makes us feel happier and proud of ourselves. Devote time and effort to realizing each one of them.

11. Smile and laugh generously.

If you are struggling, stressed out, finding life difficult, and overwhelmed and just don’t know where to turn or who to turn to I’d like to help. Contact me for a complimentary strategy session.  Click here and book a time to talk with me.  I promise to give you valuable information and  see if we are a good fit to see how I can help you move forward.

To your success,


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One Response to Baby Steps Count

  1. Dianne Labelle says:

    thanks for the list. I choose to live in positive each and everyday. the list is a good reminder. I was born in St John N.B. I live in Ontario and advocate and educate for those affected by fetal alcohol. FASD. the region where I live the Niagara region is lacking in awareness of support and awareness in FASD, I am determined to use ,,my teaching background, my frequent years educating on FASD to build a business where I can be paid for my work. I am a mom on a mission working out of my kitchen. .our adopted daughter is my teacher I am the student learning abut fetal alcohol.
    thanks for sharing your tips.
    Dianne Labelle
    FASworld Niagara
    FAS task force coalition of Niagara

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